Languages that are written left-to-right, like English, are more difficult to write with the left hand -- a right-hander writes away from his body and pulls the pencil, while a left-hander must write toward his body and push the pencil. If a left-handed child is only permitted to write with the left hand but not taught how to write, the child may develop a needlessly uncomfortable, inefficient, slow, messy way of writing that will be a lifelong hardship. Therefore, it is especially important for parents and teachers to understand how to teach left-handed children to write correctly. The most important factors are:
Like so many of you, I had spent a life-time in a near constant state of self-denial and depression, riding the cycles of secretive joy and guilt-ridden purging.
When I finally reached the point where, for the first time, I resolved to accept myself and move forward, I decided to tell a very long-time and dear friend. It was the most terrifying moment of my life… but I survived…and gained an even closer friend as a result.
It was along letter…in the end…nearly six pages long. It took two weeks to compose, revise, revise again, and again, and again…until, I finally was able to capture exactly what I wanted to share with them.
Those two weeks were some of the most difficult of my life…because, for the first time, I was putting thoughts on paper that — until then — had only ever resided between my ears. It was agonizing…and even after I had written it…several more weeks and a couple dozen readings passed before I could read it — from start to finish — without crying my eyes out.
I wrote the letter because, at the time, my wife and I had been fighting…a lot.
Actually, we had been fighting for two years — ever since I broke the news to her about my life-long transgender feelings…but, at the time that I wrote the letter, our fighting was reaching a fear pitch.
I was sure that, at any minute, she was going to expose my secret to everyone in the world, including every one of my family members.
So, as a contingency, I decided to write my letter…I figured that, if she was going to tell my family, I wanted to be prepared to break the news first — in my own words and on my own terms.
It is a trust that I believe, as wonderful parents, you deserved. As a child I feared rejection…and as I grew older I feared hurting and disappointing you and those around me who depend on me. Now, I realize that deep relationships must stand on truth. The hiding is over; I am placing my love and trust in you.
For as far back into my childhood as I can remember, I have struggled with a secret that I tried so desperately to hide — the deep feeling within me that I should have been born a girl. This was something that I knew would displease you; and, throughout my life, I tried so hard to make you proud of me.
Without going into detail, there were many, many times during my childhood when I was alone that I would dress as, and imagine being, a girl.
Despite my best attempts to deny them, these feelings have followed me all my life — through my childhood, my adolescence, my military service, and both of my marriages. They have not waned as I have grown; in fact, the feelings have only become more nagging and urgent as the years have passed.
Wherever possible within my life, I set up barriers to prevent myself from being able to act upon what I was feeling inside. To a degree, I was successful…but, like the feelings, the secret was always there.
When I was growing up, I thought I was the only person in the world in such a dilemma. Since then, I have done a significant amount of research, spending many hundreds of hours reading medical and psychological material on the subject. It is characterized by a pervasive, life-long identity with the opposite gender.
It is not homosexuality; it is not a fetish, nor transvestism crossdressingnor anything related to sex. It is not an issue of sex at all; it is a matter of personal gender identity — the sense of what and who one is.Home» Coming out» Gay» Homosexuality» LGBT» Patrick's Coming Out» My Coming Out - Part 1: My Letter to My Parents Wednesday, March 20, My Coming Out - Part 1: My Letter to My Parents.
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The key to a good note is to make a personal connection with someone! And to make that connection create a warmth by the person who receives it, whether it's just to chat, say thanks, send sympathy, etc.
Put it in an email, a Facebook message, handwritten on a piece of paper and left on their bed, or printed out on the computer and put in the mailbox. Do whatever works for you. So, if you don't want to talk to you parents, don't! Write up a letter to them instead and it can really help in bringing up important issues.
Over the years here at the Art of Manliness we’ve sung the praises of the handwritten letter and simply writing things out by hand in general.
Typically, when folks think about writing a handwritten note, they imagine doing it in cursive. An open letter to Moms and Dads of glbt youth. You may be struggling to understand where sexual orientation and Christianity intersect. Perhaps this will give you insight so that you can best navigate this as a family.
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